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The Way To a Man’s Heart..- Secrets for Women

The importance of great and healthy relationship can never be over emphasized. According to James Bauer, the world renowned relationship coach and author of ‘His Secret Obsession’, lots of things matter in life. Your career. Your health. Your finances. But nothing matters quite as much as your relationships. I mean, think about it. What’s the fun of “succeeding” if there’s no one there to celebrate it with you? Even something as simple as a beautiful sunset loses much of its significance if there’s no one by your side to enjoy it with you. There are simple ways to a man’s heart and this post is to introduce and recommend ‘His Secret Obsession‘ to all our women out there.

What is that easy idea you can use today as a woman to unlock the undying devotion of your man?

You know that other woman who has the perfect man?

The guy with the gorgeous floppy hair, quirky smile, and big heart devoted entirely to one person and one person only: His woman.

You’re so glad she found him, but honestly? You are so insanely jealous. It’s hard to stop watching them. The way he’s so attentive to her needs. The way they seem to share thoughts without speaking. The way he wraps his arms around her so tightly it’s like they’re one body. Watching them makes you ache. , guy at your side doesn’t treat you like that.

It’s not that your guy isn’t wonderful. Of course he’s wonderful. It’s more…How he treats you. He treats you like someone he’s gotten used to.

You know he doesn’t wake up in the morning pinching himself for being lucky enough to snag someone like you.

But you bet that’s what this other guy does. You can see it in his eyes. The pleasure that radiates from his smile every time he looks at the woman he loves. You nod eagerly. So you ask her—half-joking, half-hoping—if he has any brothers. She just laughs. “Nah, that’s not what you need.” She leans towards you and glances around to make sure no one’s listening. “Want to hear a secret?”way to a man's heart

She whispers, “Our relationship was just like everyone else’s before. But then I found out about this crazy secret. It’s from this relationship coach named James Bauer. It’s, like, the key to unlocking men.”

You nod even more vigorously, but she’s stopped talking. You follow her gaze across the room. Her boyfriend is holding up a drink, asking her wordlessly if she wants one. She shakes her head, blows him a kiss, and turns back to you. “So, do you want to know what it is?”

“Yeah!” you say. “If it will help me and my guy read each other’s minds, like you two just did.”

“Okay, then listen closely…

Women across the world make one universal mistake with men.

It’s not their fault. They’re just following common wisdom. Common wisdom says that men only fall for exceptional women. (Exceptional bodies, mainly.)

If you see a woman with a man trailing behind her like a puppy dog, common wisdom says you can be sure she has something you don’t.

It’s such an obvious explanation and yet…

It’s dead wrong.

That woman?

She’s no more exceptional than you. (Whatever THAT means.)

But what she does have is a very special understanding of men.

She understands that what matters most is NOT what he sees when he looks at her…

But how he sees himself reflected in her eyes.

The truth is this:

Men fall for women because of how those women make them feel.


When a man feels like a hero in a woman’s eyes, he swears his undying loyalty to her.

He can’t help it.

Most women don’t have that effect on him.

When he’s around most women, he feels like a dumb guy. Like he’s always doing something wrong. Like he needs a nanny to look after him.

He can count on one hand the number of women who look up to him. Who really, really respect him.

And he’s always going to have a place in his life for those women.


So, how do you make a man feel like a hero?secret to boost relationship

It sounds kind of silly.

Do you have to engineer some kind of scenario where he has to save kids from a burning house or a little old lady from getting hit by a car?

No. It’s a lot simpler than that.

To make your man feel like a hero, there’s one easy thing you can do starting right now:

You can thank him warmly for every single thing he does for you.

Did he offer to get you a drink?

Thank him.

Did he clear the dishes off the table?

Thank him.

Did he drive you to a meeting?

Thank him.

He’s a hero to you every day, even though you may not see it like that.

Has your man “rescued you”—metaphorically speaking—any time in the last week?

Maybe he dropped everything to help you. Maybe he was there when you needed a sounding board. Maybe his advice helped you make a difficult decision.

We tend to take those things for granted. We expect it. It numbs us to the actual miracle of having someone to rely on.

But the more you appreciate him…The more he appreciates YOU.

Now, that’s not how most people think. Most women think they can earn a man’s appreciation by doing lots of things for him. They’ve got it backwards. The best way to earn a man’s appreciation is to appreciate everything he does for you, no matter how little.

It triggers his “Hero Instinct.”


(You can get and learn more about the Hero Instinct in James’ video here.)

For now, just know that the key to unlocking his undying devotion is NOT in everything you do for him…

But in how you respond to everything he does for you.

Did he just wrap his arms around you?

Give a little wiggle of contentment.

Did he agree to watch the program you wanted to see on TV?

Give him an appreciative kiss.

Reward the little things he does, and you’ll find your man striving more and more to please you.

He’s your hero.

And that’s what heroes do.

But that’s just the beginning.

There’s so much more you can do to trigger his hero instinct.

There are phrases you can say, texts you can send, and little requests you can use to trigger his hero instinct 100 times more powerfully than just saying thanks.

And because no man can resist a woman who makes him feel like a hero, it’s worth learning a few of these emotional trigger points.

Want to take your relationship skills to the next level with men? Then learn more about how you can master this powerful technique (from the man who invented it) in this short video.

I hope your relationship will take a boom for a beautiful life ahead.

Please feel free to get the full material from James Bauer.

Kindly leave your comment below and also share the secret with your social media contact.

Bye for now.






13 responses to “The Way To a Man’s Heart..- Secrets for Women”

  1. Lorenz Valdez Avatar
    Lorenz Valdez

    Hey awesome post on the way to a man’s heart.

    Personally for me, my girlfriend of almost 8 years, I knew she was the one for me the night I met her.

    There’s was something about her that I just couldn’t resist and I just wanted to get to know her more.

    Although she was drunk and emotional due to a recent breakup, she was still beautiful.

    Over the years, we learned about each other and continued to support one another’s dreams.

    She was there for me when I was at my lowest, she was there for me when I was struggling to build my business, she was there for me when I was at my heaviest, and she was also there to cheer me on as my biggest fan and boosted my EGO when I needed it.

    We’ve been together almost 8 years now and the best is yet to come.

    Thanks for sharing!

    1. Joseph Avatar

      Thanks Lorenz for your deep contribution. You are among the lucky men who have women that have discovered the secret to their men. It can be seen from your beautiful details that you are so proud of her for the past 8 years. She makes you feel like a hero and that is so great. Please continue to enjoy the support for each other. Cheers.

  2. AlyseS Avatar

    I love the home page, how to be a better you!  That’s exactly what we all need right now.

    The post on HOPE is a good fit for me.  This is my favorite one: I simply can’t build my hopes on a foundation of confusion, misery and death… I think… peace and tranquility will return again.” Anne Frank

    Thanks for sharing all this fabulous content!

    1. Joseph Avatar

      Thanks AlyseS for your kind remarks. Hope is very important for our optimal living. It is the most important thing needed at this moment globally to sustain our zeal for the future. I appreciate your visit to my website and I encourage you to always return for more beautiful posts. Cheers and stay safe.

  3. Lucky Thomo Avatar
    Lucky Thomo

    Wow, what an exceptional post, not because I am a man but because it is revealing the truth. I wish many ladies can read your post not for fun but with understanding, They need to get that book also complete your post. I have to get the book for myself also. Thanks for the informative post.

    Note: I forgot that I had to leave a comment inside the site comment and not in the website itself. There is a duplicate now for my comments.

    1. Joseph Avatar

      Thanks so much Lucky. The training by James Bauer in ‘His Secret Obsession’ is so true because as a man, I know it is very correct. Thanks for getting a copy and do well to broadcast to your contacts.I wish every woman will have access to it, the world will be more happier for it. I am grateful.

      No problem about the duplicate, I can only see one. Cheers.

  4. Adyns68 Avatar

    Hi Joseph

    That is a great post, I have learned something incredible from it. I had that misconception that I needed the perfect IQ and the perfect body to be loved by a man. And sometimes I doubted my Man when he says he did not care about those things.

    I will commit to making him feel like a hero because it is simply the truth. I think I need that book, His secret obsession. Gonna order mine soon.


    1. Joseph Avatar

      Thanks so much for visiting and contributing. The book is a true secret for all women. Please get a copy and get the complete training, resources and more insight. I appreciate your encouragement. Cheers

  5. Chinwe Avatar

    Wow!!! Another amazing article. Thanks for all the revealings. I must say if every woman can adopt this simple strategy, the world will be a better place for us all to stay. Thanks for sharing. i have learnt alot from it.

    1. Joseph Avatar

      Thanks Chinwe. I believe it is a very helpful article for everyone especially the women. I appreciate your support always.

  6. CHILAKA Kimberly Avatar
    CHILAKA Kimberly

    This is such a lovely and yet another inspiring article… Big Ups?✊✊✊

  7. Ngozi Avatar

    A very awesome piece sir. I really really love it.. thumbs up

    1. Joseph Avatar

      Thanks for your comment. I am happy that you it was useful and interesting to you. Stay safe. Cheers

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