A happy and loving relationship is a dream for almost any person. Several researches previously done have shown that healthy relationship is the major reason for happiness and well-being.
Having great relationship is more beneficial for our mind and body than other factors like diet, exercise, career etc.
People who are supported emotionally by their partners are more likely to be more confident in their skills and abilities. However, with the increase in the pace of life, and several challenges we face today, some relationships are not very healthy.
Healthy relationship requires work and sacrifice from the man and the woman because relationship is about give and take.
I have given out some insights in my previous article on ‘the way to a man’s heart; secret for women’. The article exposed that men love women who respect, appreciate and honor them.
The more a man feels needed in a relationship, the more he is willing to give.
Men need to feel that they are trusted, appreciated and accepted in their love relationship.
And when they don’t, they become less motivated and more selfish. A man’s greatest fear is that he is not good enough for the woman he loves.
In this article, we will look at how to win a woman’s heart; Secret for men.
I will try as I can to leak the secret to men based on the much I have discovered as a married man and based on some few researches.
I also believe that I will get more support and contributions to the topic by both men and women.
Women love men who make them feel loved, make them feel as priority and cherished
This may look simple but it is deep. As a man, we must recognize how important emotion and feeling is to women.
Every action must take her feeling and emotion into account. We have different ways we express our love to our partner. We need to learn the best approach that will bring out that feeling of being loved from the woman.
The man might provide all the material and financial support needed by the woman but yet, the woman might need constant communication and verbal expression of love to feel loved.
Are you giving your woman what she is expecting to receive from you to feel loved? Expression of love is important and can come in little gestures. Get this book , it will help you understand your partner’s love language.
Say the famous three-worded sentence “I Love You” to your partner all the time. These loving words can make a great positive impact to your relationship.
These words must come out straight from the deep love residing in your soul. Only then can your partner feel the emotions related to those loving words.
Wrong assumption of what the woman really wants may create loneliness even when living with your partner or with so many people. Women do not like to feel ignored or neglected.
They need to feel that they are their partner’s priority. That is why they love you to communicate and discuss your thoughts, fears and dreams with them.
They value when you listen to them. It tells them they are important to you. They feel better emotionally when they can share and communicate with you and you give them listening ears.
Women need to feel encouraged and accepted when they are upset.
If they feel they are being criticized rather than accepted, they will feel unsafe to be themselves. Also, when women feel that their partner is not participating in their discussion, they feel disrespected and ignored and become argumentative.
To get the best out of them, including great sex, women need to feel loved and cherished. They want you to see them as the best above any other and they are constantly worried and making effort to remain as your priority.
When they feel their actions are appreciated and they are respected, they are willing to give more.
On the other hand, when they feel their efforts are not appreciated, they become consumed and exhausted.
They soon start to feel resentment and frustration towards their partner.
Women love to be given space to contribute their idea. They love the man to be in control but not controlling.
Give some space to your partner.
Most relationships fade away due to lack of space. However, giving space does not mean you are not in control.
It means allowing her to make and give suggestions and you decide the rest.
We all know that women love surprises. However, studies show that men also love surprises. The only difference is that generally men do not express their emotions on getting a surprise.
Therefore, not to make the relationship turn boring, surprises are very important.
You can surprise your partner not only on special days, but also on any given day that you want to.
Make your woman genuinely feel that she is loved, and that she is the number one priority in your life.
As a man, we love to feel needed but women love to be cherished. They love a man they can trust. this is the secret to win a woman’s heart.
“I’m quite sensitive to women. I saw how my sister got treated by boyfriends. I read this thing that said when you are in a relationship with a woman, imagine how you would feel if you were her father. That’s been my approach, for the most part.” ..Orlando Bloom
Finally, back to both partners, you can avoid so many negative situations in your relationship and have a blissful, happy life if you pay a little attention to the needs of your partner and the problems affecting your relationship.
Look at the needs of your partner daily and shower him or her with love and affection.
Follow these small tips to make your relationship long-lasting, happy and a loving one.
Please leave your comment below and discuss with your partner how correct both secrets are; the secret for women in the previous article and the points mentioned in this article.
This discussion is a way to encourage mutual communication in your relationship.
Kindly share to someone because it might be of help in this uncertain times.
Cheers and bye for now.