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How to win a Woman’s Heart: Secret for men

A happy and loving relationship is a dream for almost any person. Several researches previously done have shown that healthy relationship is the major reason for happiness and well-being.

Having great relationship is more beneficial for our mind and body than other factors like diet, exercise, career etc.

People who are supported emotionally by their partners are more likely to be more confident in their skills and abilities. However, with the increase in the pace of life, and several challenges we face today, some relationships are not very healthy.

Healthy relationship requires work and sacrifice from the man and the woman because relationship is about give and take.

I have given out some insights in my previous article on ‘the way to a man’s heart; secret for women’. The article exposed that men love women who respect, appreciate and honor them.

Women who motivate their men to feel like ‘a hero’ tend to bring out the best in their to win a woman's heart

The more a man feels needed in a relationship, the more he is willing to give.

Men need to feel that they are trusted, appreciated and accepted in their love relationship.

And when they don’t, they become less motivated and more selfish. A man’s greatest fear is that he is not good enough for the woman he loves.

In this article, we will look at how to win a woman’s heart; Secret for men.

I will try as I can to leak the secret to men based on the much I have discovered as a married man and based on some few researches.

I also believe that I will get more support and contributions to the topic by both men and women.

Women love men who make them feel loved, make them feel as priority and cherished

This may look simple but it is deep. As a man, we must recognize how important emotion and feeling is to women.

Every action must take her feeling and emotion into account. We have different ways we express our love to our partner. We need to learn the best approach that will bring out that feeling of being loved from the woman.

The man might provide all the material and financial support needed by the woman but yet, the woman might need constant communication and verbal expression of love to feel loved.

Are you giving your woman what she is expecting to receive from you to feel loved? Expression of love is important and can come in little gestures. Get this book , it will help you understand your partner’s love language.

Say the famous three-worded sentence “I Love You” to your partner all the time. These loving words can make a great positive impact to your relationship.

These words must come out straight from the deep love residing in your soul. Only then can your partner feel the emotions related to those loving words.

Wrong assumption of what the woman really wants may create loneliness even when living with your partner or with so many people. Women do not like to feel ignored or neglected.

They need to feel that they are their partner’s priority. That is why they love you to communicate and discuss your thoughts, fears and dreams with them.

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They value when you listen to them. It tells them they are important to you. They feel better emotionally when they can share and communicate with you and you give them listening ears.

Women need to feel encouraged and accepted when they are upset.

If they feel they are being criticized rather than accepted, they will feel unsafe to be themselves. Also, when women feel that their partner is not participating in their discussion, they feel disrespected and ignored and become argumentative.

To get the best out of them, including great sex, women need to feel loved and cherished. They want you to see them as the best above any other and they are constantly worried and making effort to remain as your priority.

They need to feel that their partner is devoted to them and reassured that they are loved consistently. So they need constant appreciation and encouragement from the man.secret for men

When they feel their actions are appreciated and they are respected, they are willing to give more.

On the other hand, when they feel their efforts are not appreciated, they become consumed and exhausted.

They soon start to feel resentment and frustration towards their partner.

Women love to be given space to contribute their idea. They love the man to be in control but not controlling.

Give some space to your partner.

Most relationships fade away due to lack of space. However, giving space does not mean you are not in control.

It means allowing her to make and give suggestions and you decide the rest.

We all know that women love surprises. However, studies show that men also love surprises. The only difference is that generally men do not express their emotions on getting a surprise.

Therefore, not to make the relationship turn boring, surprises are very important.

You can surprise your partner not only on special days, but also on any given day that you want to.

Make your woman genuinely feel that she is loved, and that she is the number one priority in your life.

As a man, we love to feel needed but women love to be cherished. They love a man they can trust. this is the secret to win a woman’s heart.

“I’m quite sensitive to women. I saw how my sister got treated by boyfriends. I read this thing that said when you are in a relationship with a woman, imagine how you would feel if you were her father. That’s been my approach, for the most part.” ..Orlando Bloom

Finally, back to both partners, you can avoid so many negative situations in your relationship and have a blissful, happy life if you pay a little attention to the needs of your partner and the problems affecting your relationship.

Look at the needs of your partner daily and shower him or her with love and affection.

Follow these small tips to make your relationship long-lasting, happy and a loving one.

Please leave your comment below and discuss with your partner how correct both secrets are; the secret for women in the previous article and the points mentioned in this article.

This discussion is a way to encourage mutual communication in your relationship.

Kindly share to someone because it might be of help in this uncertain times.

Cheers and bye for now.




10 responses to “How to win a Woman’s Heart: Secret for men”

  1. DorcasW Avatar

          Hello Joseph; excellent counselling you have given here. As a woman, I have identified many clauses in your post that applies to me! In every relationship, there is give and take. Love and being beloved! 

    I am single because I want full hundred as I will provide a full hundred. When two people agree to share their lives, each person might need to deny some habits. There should be no one else or anything that takes priority over the next half, so as communication must be a vibrant commodity in the relationship


    1. Joseph Avatar

      Thanks DorcasW. I am glad that you enjoyed and benefited from the article. It is a fact and natural that we give to receive. Communication is very key. It is very good for people in relationship to have easy and free channel of communication so that they can understand themselves better.

  2. evans Avatar

    quite an intriguing tips you got here and how to win a woman’s heart for men, in my  believe  women love men that are caring and once they detect that you are a caring man they tend to naturally fall for you so it doesn’t take much more task to win a woman’s heart you just have to be caring and you know time should be all yours..

    thanks to you for sharing such amazing tips which men would find quite welcoming

    1. Joseph Avatar

      Hi Evans, thanks for your contribution. It is true that care is very important to women. It is the care that makes them to feel loved and cherished.

  3. Philebur Avatar

    Hello there, thanks a lot for sharing this wonderful piece of information here with us. I must say i really did enjoyed going through your article as it contains useful information’s one can hold on to. I find these tips pretty interesting as it might just help go a long way. Thanks for sharing

    1. Joseph Avatar

      Thanks Philebur for your contribution. I am glad that you enjoyed and found the article useful. Please visit more often for more useful posts.

  4. Jomata Avatar

    Such an awesome post there,  i was just smiling reading through this article because I can relate to alot of things here,  espcially when you said women wants  men to be in control but not controlling is so true as I remember I made this mistake at the early stage of my relationship thinking I was doing the right thing not knowing I was all domineering and it really affeted my relationship until I learnt and now we doing just perfect. I hope this meet someine well also.

    1. Joseph Avatar

      Thanks Jomata, we are all learning everyday on how to improve our lives. Women love space to contribute their views, it gives the assurance that they are relevant. It is also good to allow them to maximize their potentials.

  5. Awinikistevie Avatar

    Hello there, This is an amazing article that you have got here. Relationship issues are very common in our world today as a result of poor understanding. Misunderstanding has always been the bedrock for break ups and divorce. However, the idea you shared are exceptional and capable of equipping partners with the requisite knowledge to run their relationship.

    Thanks for sharing.

    1. Joseph Avatar

      Thanks Awinikistevie, as humans, there is likelihood of disagreement of opinions and ideas, this should be an avenue to communicate the more rather than source of friction. We hope that the article will be helpful to someone out there.

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